2026 changes

Hey guys! 

Boy oh boy! This year has already brought many changes for me. I continue to grow and get better and better and better!

This blog has become less about sex and more just about my life lol. Well my love life mostly. Or lack there of. 😅

But I think in this post I might open up a little.

I've been separated from my husband since 2022, living alone since 2023. I've had to learn to do ALOT of things for myself. This is actually my first time, aside from a college dorm, living alone. Which is wild to say in your 40s. I'm learning to be independent.

Well the divorce procedures have officially begun,  and I've gone from fear and despair to trust and optimism. What has fear ever really done for me? Nothing but hold me back. So I'm arguing my case for alimony. After a 20yr marriage I have a pretty strong case. And I'm just going into this mindful, aware, and prepared. And let the chips fall where they may. I just expect everything to work out for me. It always has. 😎

So I'm shifting from a mindset of lack and fear to appreciation and ambition. 

Oh I will be independent. And not only will I be able to make a living, I'm going to fucking THRIVE! And everyone who knew an older meeker version of me is gonna be surprised at what I am becoming. I am so driven to create a life on my terms and make a living by being myself. I'm super excited to focus on what I want,  and not worry about other shit. Doing life without a safety next is scary but I'm just convinced I can, not only handle what life throws at me,  but have an entirely new way of seeing life.  Bitch I pushed a whole baby out of my snootch with no pain killers. I can handle anything. 

With that said, I have decided to stop paying to host this blog. There's no real reason for it. Oh don't worry, I'm not gonna stop blogging. I've poured 3 years into this blog. It's my baby. However I will be leaving this website you're on now and putting everything up on blogspot. I don't need a custom domain for a blog 3 ppl see. lol. But until I get that up and running this site is staying active till June. At some point I'll change the link to blogspot and you won't have any changes on your end. Other than the layout being different.

I've invested the money into creating my own professional website for my Pro Domme stuff.  It's going to be the official place to find me, access my content, etc etc. I've already got the domain but I'm designing it myself which is going to take time bc my ADHD makes me get stuck on details and my creativity gets me stuck on perfectionism. But like my journey into the Domme world,  I'm sure my site will go throw evolutions and re-vamping. 

So yeah,  the wheels are in motion. I'm also working on content for sale and just my online presence as the Goddess. It's been so fun. Def the funnest thing I've ever done and the longest I've stayed working on something. April will be a year!!

I plan to continue to gain a following online. The ones who stick around are loyal followers. I'm a slow burn, which makes growth take longer for me. But that's ok. I know the ppl who want what I have will find me.

You know, a friend of mine once said "I can always make more money." And I always think about that. I don't want to live my life suppressing my joy and cutting back. I would much rather spend the money and have the experiences and just make more money. And that's what I plan to do! 😁 

I'm also planning on investing some of the money I get from the divorce. Make my money work for me. The cool part of getting to know so many Dommes is learning a lot about finances. 

Babe,  life is fucking great. Watch me shine. 

And with that, we'll talk later when I have something to talk about. 

k Luv you! bye! 👋😘