So I have hinted on Reddit about having some really graphic taboo and extreme stories I want to share. I haven't written them yet because I wasn't sure where I could share them. But they're based on roleplays with my Ai which get very extreme. 

I want to put them behind a paywall because I don't want them to be easy to get to. If someone wants to read this filth they have to make the effort and that's kind of consent that....you know....I warned you. So I think I'm going to use Loyal Fans because you have to verify your age just to have an account on there. And that way everyone is legal. Also, I can hit a broader audience on there. And they have a paywall system already in place so it's easier to get up and running. Rather than trying to figure how to do that on this website. I'll link it on here when it's up and running so that anyone who wants access can go do that. I'm also going to put disclaimers on every story and let ppl know what kind of things are involved so people can decide if they want to read about that. 

It's not like....what i write about is stuff you haven't seen in porn rabbit holes you go down. But you know, when you wanna get off you go to extremes. I won't go as dark as I've gone in some of these conversations but i'll be mining them to get some wild stories. There are re-occuring themes bc that's just where my mind always goes. And i'm sure there's an audience for this stuff. I just don't want to offend ppl. 

So yeah that's the plan. I think i'll start writing some stuff down first and build up a collection before I post. In the meantime I have some old writings from my former fetlife profile that I haven't shared on here so I'll probably post that soon. Stay tuned. 

I met him on Hinge.  My profile said I was looking for a beta male for a 
FLR. I started sending likes. He actually responded. His response was "Thank you Queen."  Perfect. He told me he was usually dominant but he always wanted to explore his sub side. We began to discuss limits and kinks. I gave him a long list, there was only one that gave him pause. But he said he wouldn't rule it out. Incredible. So compatible. I explained that communication was important and if there was ever anything he wasn't comfortable with to let me know. I also gave him safe words.

Then things just sort of naturally progressed rather quickly. He really enjoyed serving a Goddess. He was so obedient and eager to serve. I told him to send me a Starbcuks gift card the first night. It wasn't going through with my email. I told him it better be there by the morning. The next day it wasn't. I sent him a message calling him swine and telling him he better fucking fix it. And with in minutes I received the email. "Way less than you deserve. I should have had it to you last night Goddess. From, Piggy Gavin."

What a good little piggy. It turns out Piggy was just as nasty as me. And I had never been more turned on. Holy fuck. Goddamn the high was exquisite. I gave him tasks daily and he completed them all quickly. He was so obedient. God he was perfect. So perfect in fact that just a few days in I was already looking for a collar for him. He was so deliciously desperate too. He was so good at worship. I gave him my number but told him he was not allowed to text me unless I initiated the texting first. But he was encouraged to email me as much as he wanted. He would send me desperate emails throughout the day. Saying he felt useless without a task and he was desperate for more. I made him do things for me. Record a video of himself jerking off on his knees in his bed and I wanted him to cum on his sheets. He sent me the video. Afterwards I told him he's not allowed to clean it up. I wanted him to sleep in his own filth. He sent me a picture of him laying his head down on the cummy sheets. I was so pleased. The next day he was begging for a task while he was at work. I told him I wanted him to lick the floor. He came back and sent me a picture of him licking the bathroom floor at work. Ughhhh soooo digusting and pathetic! I loved it!!!!!! It only made my sadistic boner bigger and harder. 

The next day I was afraid he would be scared off because of the extreme things he was doing for me and I wanted to do some damage control to make sure he stuck around. I told him that I wanted to destroy him sexually but I didn't want to destroy his self esteem. And that I knew he wouldn't always be in this mood. I suggested maybe every other day could be a nice day where he just worships his Goddess and I give him tasks that won't degrade him and some that will uplift him. I wanted to nourish our connection and nurture him as my loyal submissive. The harsh doesn't come without the caring, that would be unsustainable. He appreciated my generosity and care for his well being. He told me we could have a nice day the next day, but today he wanted to be my nasty piggy. Which I was happy to oblige. 

I made him get completely naked and take a video of himself looking at the camera and saying "I'm a pathetic limp dick loser and I don't deserve to lick my Goddess's shoes" 10 times while he slowly and deliberately plays with his cock. What a pathetic loser. I loved breaking him down. A dick that size deserves to be locked up. He's a pathetic excuse for a man and could never satisfy a woman. His place is being cuck who debases himself for me. It went from a potential relationship to him only allowed to please me orally to me saying that filthy mouth would never get anywhere near this pussy. I denied him every physical part of me except for my feet. I told him he pleases me by being a nasty little pig and being disgusting for me. And how much pleasure it gives me. He quickly accepted his place. 

I told him I wanted him to suck cock for me. It went from him cleaning up a cock, to him just sucking a bull's cock, to me telling him to go find cocks to suck and film it for me. He eagerly agreed like a good little bitch. He even downloaded Grindr just for this purpose. God he made me so happy. I don't know that I have ever been this mentally fulfilled. I masturbated so much during this time. 

I would have been very happy with Piggy long term but he faded away sadly. This is common practice with men. They love the fantasy and then they have post nut clarity. It's unfortunate because why give up this kind of pleasure that could be consistent and ongoing? Especially when I've created space for you to communicate, take a breather, etc. 

oh well. I will say it further awaked my lady boner and I have such a hankering for a nasty nasty boy to play with. 

Ladies please, never ever let these crusty dusties convince you that your standards are too high. Never lower your standards for men who can't meet them. Let the trash show itself out and make room for the ones who will rise to meet your standards. Because believe me, when a man really wants you, he'll jump through fucking hoops for you. And I've seen it for myself. Also be careful who you give your energy to. If they're not returning it, they're probably giving it to someone else. The right guy will appreciate your high standards and jump to meet them. 

While we're at it, if you see something you want, go for it. Don't wait for it to come to you. You may be surprised how many times the only thing standing in the way of you and what you want is your fear of going after it. 

And lastly, listen to your gut. It's always right. Your body knows before your head does. Get good at being in tune with your body. Cut a motherfucker off real quick the moment you feel it in your gut. The times when I didn't listen were the times shit blew up in my face.

God speed ladies.

We're going back to basics with this post. It's the kind of post I made a lot of when I first moved into my own apt. I remember LOVING my privacy and being super horny and wanting to seduce all men. 😂 

At first it was that guy who walks his dog by my window at all hours. Standing in front of my window semi or sometimes fully nude. Undressing knowing anyone could walk by and see me. Not to mention the countless maintenance men I let in wearing no bra and sometimes in a crop top where one false move and my tits would be exposed. I got a rush out of it. Once I let a guy in wearing nothing but a very thin pink robe that left very little to the imagination. Of course everything was new and fresh back then. I was single and living alone and wanted to have some dirty pervy fun. 

I've grown since then. I don't do that stuff anymore. However...

I put in a maintenance request to have pest control come spray my apt as the weather is getting warmer and i'm noticing bugs coming out again. Now I know its like....once a month. I couldn't remember if it was the last friday of every month or....it turns out its the first thursday of the month. Which is today.  I got a knock on the door. Luckily I know to bolt the 2nd lock now, because I gave this person permission to enter thinking I would be out of the house. Thank GOD I was dressed. Well semi dressed. I had on my pink pajama set (pants and a button up shirt) which is so soft and yummy but my tits are very obvious as are my nipples. Also the buttons are stretched bc of my boobs. I was like shit. I quickly opened the door and said "you can come in and do your thing" as I walked into the bedroom. I was so....not prepared! I just threw my pink robe on top to cover my tits and went back out. Then I was embarrassed bc if I knew someone was coming I would have tidied up a bit.  There were dishes in the sink, and stuff sprawled out on the counter. 

I began cleaning up while he was spraying. We were in close quarters in my kitchen he had to squeeze by me. He was CUTE. You guuuuuuuyyyyysssss. He had blond hair and a beard, and blue eyes, and an earring. Ugh he was cuuute! I  was so embarrassed bc I would have liked to be prepared so I could have flirted properly. At one point he passed by the tv and saw Broad City playing and he said "Oh I love that show, whats it called?" I said Broad City.  He was kind of chatty but I couldn't volley bc I was sooooo in my head! Trying to do mental gymnastics to remember if there was anything embarrassing I had to worry about. He went down the hall to the bathroom. I thought omg is he gonna spray my bedroom? I know I left my vibrator out. Luckily he didn't. But also luckily I didn't leave it by the sink after I washed it. Phew!

He was done and I was still in my room trying to gather myself and he said he was done. I yelled "ok thanks!" and let him show himself out. I walked back to the front door and he reached back to grab the door and smiled at me "take care", yeah you too thanks. 

Bruuuhhhhh. Wish I could  retake that. Been more prepared. I could have flirted with him. He seemed hella open to it. Fuck. Oh well, just as well. He's probably married. Couldn't tell if there was a ring since he was wearing gloves.

I definitely used to be more adventurous and pervy before. lol. Although damn, it would have been a perfect opportunity to lean into my  inner domme. Maybe I should have just stood there as is and made direct eye contact. hahaha. next time. 

Bruhhh.....The amount of growth I've had in the last month  is insane.

My therapist and I have been processing and deconstructing some of my shit. I fucking love my therapist so much. I can tell her anything. She's so cool. She's like, so......are we going to try to have a non kink relationship? LOL. I was like nah, this is where it's at. Being dominant allows me to embrace my true self.  The woman I've always been. Traits that were seen as bad/selfish/too much, things I pushed down to be more palatable to people.  I learned to be a ppl pleaser, specifically to men. Being cute was apparently something I learned to do at a young age. It gave me attention and validation. As an adult I continued it. I dunno maybe I'm just naturally cute? But also...how much of that is learned behavior? Being cute or being sexual were the only two ways to make men like me. Daddy issues? That's tooooo much to dive into in a blog post. But let's just say I had to work for his attention and now I think it's normal to have to work for a man's love. To win them over, to convince them to choose me. What a joke.  Ladies, the right man won't need any convincing. 

My therapist encourages my exploration of my dominant side. She says I'm stepping into my power and I quite agree. It took a "tower moment" to shake me up and make me remove the rose colored glasses I was wearing. Sadly I think most women experience this kind of thing. Wanting so badly to be chosen that you allow so much disrespect. It's taken a lot of time, reflection, processing of emotions, crying, talking my best friend's ear off, and just being a girl, but I think I've certainly come out stronger on the other side. 

So here I am, leaning into the domme in me and I gotta tell you, it feels very correct. I feel .....really good. Like good good. I am a switch of course, I love a good power exchange. However, I certainly lean more dominant. Shit, even as a sub I don't like being told what to do. lol.  For a while there I kept questioning myself. Am I....not dom enough? When I tell you how much I tried to be more dom, the research, the questions, the failed attempts. (This reminds me of when I tried to figure out a way to be more sexual with my husband. I see a pattern. Always trying to "fix" myself when the problem isn't me, its that i'm with the wrong guy). When it comes to being a domme, I wasn't given a manual. I just know I enjoy having power over men. It gets me rock hard. Turgid, in fact. After doing a lot of exploring on my own I realized there was absolutely nothing wrong with the way my dominance presents itself. I was just, in fact, with the wrong sub. Compatibility is important. But this is how we learn! We make mistakes! We have new experiences. We keep what we like and get rid of what we don't. And each experience makes us better and brings us closer to who we're meant to be. 

Now, I know what to look for, and what to watch out for. And what I absolutely will not tolerate. Now that I know what I want, I'm craving it, and I know that I will NOT settle for anything less. So while I do enjoy many vanilla things like cuddling, kissing, holding hands, being intimate, I also want to be in control. And I can be both!!! Also, I'm pretty nasty. I haven't had a chance to explore that side of myself yet and I want to find someone who's freak matches mine. I also realize I want a relationship. Not an intense or serious one, but a relationship nonetheless. No more FWB, no more "situationship" cuz fuck that. I want monogamy. I'm done fighting for a guy's attention. I'm done begging to be chosen. I want someone who not only chooses me, but jumps through hoops for me. He's mine (my property), and I'm his (owner). We don't have to talk all the time or see each other all the time, I need better boundaries because I tend to lose myself in relationships. I will no longer make myself that available to anyone again. I want him collared and caged, and I hold the key. And he's happy that way. He wants to be owned. To serve. A cuck situation would be ideal, but I'm open to it just being us. I want him to worship me, to crave me, to beg for me. I want to deny him. My sadism is very mental. AAaaannnd there goes my brain popping a boner again. I want CONTROL. And I cannot stress this enough. I👏🏼DO👏🏼 NOT👏🏼 SHARE👏🏼 MY👏🏼 FUCKING 👏🏼TOYS!!! My sub is MINE!
But with that control, denial, objectification and yes even humiliation, comes praise and affection. And yes, some men actually LOVE that combo.

I learned that I can be ALL parts of myself, I don't have to pick and choose. I can be cute and sweet and loving, I can be bitchy and sadistic, I can be nurturing, I can be sarcastic and funny, I can be all those things and still command respect. I will no longer try to embody what I think a man wants me to be. Nor will I try to do things that work on "his terms". Because all that does is suck your energy and leave you with nothing. No more selfish men. Just because you're not enough for one man doesn't mean there aren't a bunch more who will think you're exactly what they're looking for and treat you like the fucking goddess that you are. 

I used think there were only two modes. Either I was online sifting through countless men, wasting my energy only to be disappointed again and again. OR I could disconnect from all of it and not talk to anyone at all. I saw getting back on and engaging as cheating. I would feel guilty about it. Like, it meant I was weak. But now I know it doesn't have to be all or nothing. So I came back with a new mindset and a new strategy to filter out the ones that were even worth my time. By placing a task in front of them just to earn the privilege of engaging with me I have saved myself so much time and energy. Men are lazy. The amount of male attention I get, I used to think was validating. But now I know men will give anything attention. It's not the amount of attention, it's the quality. So far none have made it through the filter. And I have found that it's a great way to not get sucked in. To go on about my day and my life without falling into their trap. It's WONDERFUL!  (thanks for the idea 😉)

Along with being lazy and not reading, men, I have discovered, are very manipulative. They will try to manipulate you in different ways, but they all do it. Once you're aware of it, it becomes so clear that you just have to laugh and be like damn, I can't believe I used to fall for this shit. 😂 Then you start to have fun with it because you don't care, and that's the most freeing thing in the world!  Because now the domme comes out. And she can choose to either play with her food before she tosses it in the trash, call them out on their bullshit (make them squirm), or simply disengage. So far I've done the first and the last. And you know what? I have saved myself sooo much time and energy. I love this for us. 

Be blunt. Be brutally honest. Do not fill the space with your words. Let him do the work. And if he doesn't, deuces ✌🏼. Also, guys are too lazy to customize their emojis, that's just a little pet peeve of mine.  Once you stop needing validation from men, life gets a lot more fun! Because babe, remember,  these men are beneath us. 

So yeah I'll wait. I'm good with waiting. I have shit I'm working on anyway and I'm having fun working on myself. I don't need a man to complete me. So until one comes along who is worthy of my time, we're not bothering with them. 

You don't need heels, leather, or whips to be cunty babe. You can be cunty in sneakers and pants. It's not about how you look, it's about how you feel and how you carry yourself. Just be authentically you, when you do that, your confidence will shine through. It's trying to be something you're not that makes you so insecure.  Now go embrace you're inner cunt, you got this. 😘

"A Mistress is a Female owner of slaves or a Woman who dominates and takes control of those who submit to Her. A Goddess however is so much more than this.
She is One who must be worshiped and adored. She requires Her subjects to be completely devoted to Her and willing to do anything to please Her, serve Her and make Her happy. She expects to be presented with offerings that will please and placate Her, and she will wreak vengeance on those who do not do this.
She is the divine incarnate. She is the embodiment of all that is noble, true, wise and beautiful. She should be held in awe. Her slaves must worship the ground She walks on and humbly grovel at her feet begging to be considered worthy enough to serve Her. For a Goddess is One who is truly great and demands total respect, devotion and adoration at all times and forever."​