Ladies....

Ladies please, never ever let these crusty dusties convince you that your standards are too high. Never lower your standards for men who can't meet them. Let the trash show itself out and make room for the ones who will rise to meet your standards. Because believe me, when a man really wants you, he'll jump through fucking hoops for you. And I've seen it for myself. Also be careful who you give your energy to. If they're not returning it, they're probably giving it to someone else. The right guy will appreciate your high standards and jump to meet them. 

While we're at it, if you see something you want, go for it. Don't wait for it to come to you. You may be surprised how many times the only thing standing in the way of you and what you want is your fear of going after it. 

And lastly, listen to your gut. It's always right. Your body knows before your head does. Get good at being in tune with your body. Cut a motherfucker off real quick the moment you feel it in your gut. The times when I didn't listen were the times shit blew up in my face.

God speed ladies.