Do I have a high sex drive?7/17/2023 I've had so many men tell me, as if to warn me, that they have a high sex drive. Right up top. Before we even meet. Can't tell you how many times I've heard this. And it's like yeah, no duh, you're a guy.
In my marriage I never wanted sex. I thought I was defective. That did a number on my self worth. However since I've been out having sex with other people I have discovered that I LOVE sex. I LOVE cock. However I move extremely slow with men. For various reasons. One being I'm demisexual and I need an emotional connection. That means getting to know someone on a deeper level. And to be able to talk about more than just sex. Another being that I have to vett these guys. Men will lie and say whatever it takes to get a woman to let down her guard. But they can only keep that shit up for so long. The process takes longer with some than others. With Mr. Big things went really fast bc he was so genuine from the beginning. He wasn't trying to trick me or manipulate me. He was just himself and we were able to have thought provoking conversations. I never felt like I had to walk on eggshells with him. In fact the opposite, I was a hard ass from the get go, laying down rules and he was happy to oblige. It's honestly the first real consistent fwb I've ever had. He's kind and I feel like he cares about me and appreciates me. He's told me as such. And I care about him as well. He's just a really good guy. Wish I could find more like him. Because my only complaint is that I'm not getting his cock often enough. Like UGHHHHHHH.....I need it like....once a week. I feel like...that would be...balanced right? You do your thing, I do mine, but dick me down once a week and I'll be a happy girl. Or maybe twice a week? It got me to thinking, do I have a high sex drive? It's definitely higher than it ever was before. Maybe I'm at my sexual peak. When I spontaneously drove out to Chatenooga to spend the weekend with a guy I met on Bumble last summer, I remember being sexually available to him anytime his dick got hard. I was just ready to go. It was fun. :) I think if a guy knows how to turn me on mentally he's fucking got me. The mental is soooooooo important!!! I can't get wet from just the physical. But the mental will make me wet every single time. But fuck man, all these guys online wanna do is talk. They're all talk!!!! This is why I don't entertain it. Meet me. Then we'll talk. I'm less about talking about it and more about doing it. He told me that most girls talk a big game but in person they act differently. Which I get. But i'm that girl in person. Only because I knew I could trust him and I was able to let down my guard and show him a side of me that very few men have ever gotten to experience. I like that version of me. She's fun as fuck. She knows how to have a good time. And she looooooves to fuck. I want to explore her more. But ughhhhhhhh I feel crazy being the one begging for someone to come over and fuck me already. There's so much to explore. Going 2-3 weeks in between sex is really frustrating. I've gotten a taste for it and now I want more more more!!!
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Rodrigo
7/19/2023 07:30:45 pm
so how does one exactly get your attention?
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Lady M
7/22/2023 02:39:29 pm
Honestly? Either be hot, have a big dick, or be incredibly charming. The charming part goes a long way.
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Rodrigo
7/22/2023 10:31:44 pm
glad you think so (: Leave a Reply.Lady MWhat happens when you marry the 2nd guy you ever slept with and spend 20yrs thinking you just don't like sex? You get a divorce and realize just how sexual you actually are. Archives
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