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Is it true?

As a demisexual it always perplexes me how easily men will have random sex encounters with strangers. I do get annoyed with my need for connection and trust first. And that’s never something that’s done in one day. For men it feels like it’s just a really intense itch they need to scratch RIGHT NOW and they won’t be interested later. I guess I can relate in the sense of when you’re watching porn and super horny and need to cum so you look for some extreme shit then after you cum you’re like ugh, close that I don’t want to look at it. ( I’ve been treated like that porn on many occasions and refuse to ever be that again.)

I always chalked it up to physical needs. But recently it’s been brought to my attention by a few people that it often times can be to mask other feelings. Men weren’t given the tools as boys to process and express their own feelings. Yet they have them just the same. So what do they do? Channel that into sex. Using sex as a way to not think about those feelings. I’m extremely fascinated by this.

Is this true? Honestly, it gives you more depth instead of just looking like horny fuck machines. I’m really interested in the way men work. I never really get to see the depth but I know it’s there. I’m always seeking it out. Y’all fascinate me.