Sex after 40
Story time - The Chef in Nashville8/16/2023 I once had a ONS with a guy from Bumble in Nashville. We didn’t even talk. I knew nothing about him other than what he looked like. But I think he could tell I was down to fuck that night before we even met. We matched, I was already looking for someone quickly before my trip ended. I just messaged him and said, I'm only in town for the day. He said, here's my number, text me. I did. He said how bout 9:30 tonight? Done.
We both knew what this was. This is, by the way, sooooo unlike me. But out of town me is a different beast. Anyway. This guy was such a pro. You could tell he did this a lot and god bless him. He did it well. He had a way of making me feel comfortable and at ease. He asked me questions about myself while we were making out. He made the whole experience more of a friendly sexy vibe instead of this serious intense sex thing which made the entire experience way more fun. And not only that but after I never felt used. He fucked me 3 times. And each time he would cuddle with me and just talk in between sex. It was probably the most friendly sex experience I’ve ever had. There was no awkwardness. I wasn’t trying to be anything I wasn’t. I wasn’t trying to please him. I was actually there to get mine. He tried pulling some “hand on the throat” bullshit with me and I was like “nah babe, we’re not doing that” then he got a bit frustrated when his size was too big for doggy. I think he was looking for someone a bit more submissive but that’s not the mood I was in that night. After 2 rounds he said he was done. But I said..”fine but I wanna enjoy this young sexy body of yours”. And I really objectified him and then started doing naughty things to him, had him hard and breathing heavy. But I stopped….and he asked why? I told him "if you want to cum again, you have to fuck me". I mean, this was the first big cock I had ever had at the time and it was life changing. I wanted to get as much of it as possible. So he went ahead and fucked me and came a 3rd time. I could have gone 2 more rounds to be honest. But it was late and he was spent. In the end I really enjoyed our time together and didn’t feel any attachment or need to talk to him again. I felt very satisfied both sexually and emotionally bc he treated me well. I really wish more men would put a little less focus on making a girl cum and more focus on making a girl feel comfortable and respected. To me that goes a long way. Also that was one thing that the apps were good for. Hook ups. The only time I did that was when I was out of town. But it was nice to see them first to see if there's any physical attraction before you go through a whole thing. Because who has time for that? I would much rather people know what they're getting up front so they can decide if they're interested first rather than risk rejection. Like step one, is there mutual interest physically? If not, good ole handshake and best of luck with the next match. If so, ok lets move on to round 2, etc.
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Lady MWhat happens when you marry the 2nd guy you ever slept with and spend 20yrs thinking you just don't like sex? You get a divorce and realize just how sexual you actually are. Archives
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