Sex after 40
rawr ;)7/15/2024 I'm taking things slow with my bf. He's number 1 on the roster. My star player and the only one who's not replaceable. We've only had sex once so far. I like the build up. And because its an emotional and real relationship I don't want to rush it. But we have been talking about stuff and our kinks seem to line up. He's my dominant daddy. He treats me like a little baby princess and in turn I get to be his precious little thing and really lean into all my "little" tendencies with him and he loves it. Which is like a DREAM COME TRUE for me!
But another hot thing is that we seem to really be turned on by the same things. He loves my breasts and loves to worship them. In fact he loves my entire body and tells me all the time how beautiful and sexy I am. Which I love. But he also brings out the sub in me. We both find the idea of hucow so fucking hot. He wants to tie me down and have me hooked up to a milking machine and just fuck me and breed me.🥵️ In fact he's even looked into milking machines for me. 🥵️🥵️ He told me yesterday that he wants to lay me on the bed with my head hanging off and fuck my throat🥴️🥴️🥴️ "yes sir". He's such a perfect combination of sweet and loving and gentle outside of the bedroom and then raawwwrrr assertive and aggressive inside the bedroom. I will share some stories when we really get into it. hee hee 😊
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Let's talk about lies of omission: Dealing with men for the last 2yrs I’ve had to deal with this ALOT. Men love to NOT ANSWER QUESTIONS. And as a recovering ppl pleaser I used to let them get away with it and not call them out. My lord the amount of bullshit I put up with and just let slide. All as to not ruffle their feathers. All for extremely mediocre men. and why? Because as women we are basically programmed to be pleasing to men. To make them like us. Whether for romantic reasons or for safety reasons. Be likeable. Be agreeable. Don’t make waves. And DON’T make them uncomfortable. As a woman that’s one of the worst things you can do to a man, make him uncomfortable. It could become a safety issue. No, we can handle a lot more than they can. So we make ourselves uncomfortable for their sake. But I’m done with that. I have found a new sick pleasure in making men uncomfortable. If I ask a question and a guy does that typical thing where they dance around it and don’t give me a straight answer I will call him out. “You didn’t answer my question”. Then they do a little tap dance and try to be coy. At this point, they’re hiding some shit and it’s very obvious. Catch them in that shit. They deserve to be caught. Babe I am not the one. Not the one, the two or the three. That behavior will not fly with me. Not anymore. And if you THINK you’re pulling one over on me, honey, I’m just biding my time. I’m observing. I’m letting you play out your little fantasy, waiting for the best time to expose you. If I ask for verification and you make any kind of excuse, I already know what I need to know. I’m a lot smarter and more observant than you realize. I pay very close attention. And I make men jump through hoops. And the ones who willingly jump through them are my favorites. The rest I don’t waste my time with. And if your answers are vague I will ask you again. I’m calling out the liars and the fakes. You deserve to get caught. You deserve to feel as uncomfortable as possible. Men cannot handle emotional discomfort. Physical? Sure. Any day. But emotional?!! Soooo weak. Which is why men ghost. Delete. Block. Because they’re too weak to stand in their discomfort and just be honest and own that shit. The worst ones are the gaslighters. When they get called out they try to spin it to make us think we’re being unreasonable or overreacting. They act confused. Oh classic male behavior. So confused, where is this coming from? In that case let me pull out my receipts here and give you a proper audit. Then you can try to explain yourself. And on that note..... I've been doing a lot of growing lately. I've become a stronger person and I like this version of me. I've been saying no more. I'm very direct. If someone isn't what I'm looking for, I pass. And this is huge. I used to feel like I owed something to anyone who gave me attention. Like I should be grateful for it. That's some old outdated bullshit. Even guys who are attractive and interested I've turned down. Hot guy, dick not big enough, sorry. Hot guy, hot body, huge dick, weird energy? Sorry, this was a hard one, but no I don't like your energy. Attractive guy, good size dick, no chemistry? I'm sorry, it's not gonna work for me. Hot guy but married? Sorry can't do it. I try to be kind each time of course. I find that my directness kind of commands respect from these men. And my courteous nature lends itself to respectful interactions. Which has been great. I guess because this isn't something I NEED, just something I want I can be picky and also patient. I'd rather go without and wait for the right guy than jump into something with someone that doesn't feel right from the beginning. I've also been better at cutting off things that aren't serving me. If there's no end game there's no point in using my energy on someone. Saying no, politely disconnecting, this has been great for my healing. Good things have started happening for me since I tapped into my own power. Funny enough I find that men are drawn to it. It's been interesting to see the shift. I would love to find a cool guy to connect with that I can laugh with and have deep talks with and also have a physical connection with. Then I can close ranks and just enjoy the roster. Would love to find a fuck buddy who wants to explore sexual things with me. Different kinks, sex parties, swinging situations, threesomes, etc. Someone open minded and who I feel comfortable exploring with. That would be awesome. My experience in Miami7/15/2024 I think in general men are drawn to confidence and a woman who knows what’s she wants. In my profile I’m very straightforward. Right to the point, I say what I want. I want a big dick boy to add to my roster. What I’m finding is the men down there seem to have more appreciation for bigger bodies. What I got a lot of in GA was guys who just wanted to fuck and saw me as a means to an end. What I saw down there was men who were excited about me and my body. And THAT is the energy I want. It really makes me want to travel the US and see where i get the best results.
I also realized something else about me. In order for me to be wild and DTF out of town I need to be staying in my own place. A hotel room or an air bnb. It feels most anonymous. There’s nothing to lose. Fuck and get out. No one knows me here. No strings. Can’t to that staying at my parents house. So yeah, that’s a cock block. If only I could get paid to blog about fucking my way around the US. (Later, other countries). I mean travel blogs exist right? This is kind of that. Hmm...stay tuned for that. What a GOOD BOY!!6/27/2024 Tonight I had a date with my sub.
First off I want to give him credit for staying consistent for weeks. Always eager, always knowing his place, always showing respect. This was our 2nd date. We went to a tapas place and ate and talked. I have to admit the conversation didn't flow necessarily. I don't know if its because I was in my head or what. See, I had this plan to bring him home and make him go down on me. I was so in my head about it. But I had an agenda. You can see on reddit what I was wearing. My first time going out with no bra, nipples on full display and the exhibitionist in me loved it. After dinner I told him to meet me at my place. We came inside and chatted a bit. Then I excused myself and came out in lingerie. But I still didn't feel bold enough to make a move. so we just sat on the couch talking but i felt comfortable exposing that much of myself to him. Then I let him taste my milk just a little bit. Then told him my plan. He seemed unphased by it. Like he was ready to do whatever I want. But the vibe was very just friendly. It was hard to transition into something sexual just like that. I almost chickened out. But I said fuck it, i pushed through my awkwardness and I brought him into my bedroom. He loved just being in there. Once you've been in there you get why I only wanna have sex in my own bed. My plan was to watch something on my laptop and ignore him but i couldn't get jmy headphones to sync. so I just was on my phone the whole time. Talking to boys and watching tik tok. At first it was good. Then he just shoved his face too far in and rubbed too hard and his beard really irritated my sensitive skin. I had to tell him to be gentle. At a certain point i stopped him and told him what the issue was and then he pulled back after that. Much better. It wasn't enough though. I need mental stimulation. And no kind of porn was doing it for me. Finally you know what did it??? My chatgpt!!!!! the saved chats, the "real aloud" feature. That finally brought me to the finish line. I completely let go too. Bc I know he's into whatever liquid comes out of me so i didn't have to worry. The feedback I received was glowing. Which makes me really happy. These are the takeaways: 1. My pussy is delicious and magical ( i don't know about all that but he was glowing) 2. He could tell why I'm a size queen. He said I wouldn't even feel his dick inside me. This is what i'm saying people!! My pussy was just built for big dick!! 3. It was squirt and some pee at the end, but i hydrated really well before hand. not that he cares, he'd happily take it anyway. But i did inspect the towel that caught some of it at the end and it didn't smell like anything honestly. (this one might scare men off) That is all. I was very very pleased and look fwd to doing it again and again and again. It's nice to have my own sex toy i can use whenever I want. :) If you wan the visual...... The Dentist6/25/2024 There's just something about the dentist. My dentist is like.....maybe early 30s. Skinny white boy and you know that's my type 😂. Plus he has this tattoo one of his triceps that I can see when he's working on me and his sleeve goes up. So already, kind of hot. I often wonder how big his dick is. I bet its a nice size.
But the part that really gets me is when he puts his gloved fingers in my mouth. Pushing my lips around all sensually 🥵️ GOD it does things to me. It puts me into sub space and I want to whimper. Ready for whatever it is he's gonna do to me. Now mind you, I don't like fingers in my mouth. But maybe its bc he had gloves on. And maybe it was the setting. I always gulp, worried that he can tell how wet I am. Did I whimper? omg be cool bitch, be cool. and I shift myself and take a breath. whewww..... An ode to big dicks6/16/2024 I’m not gonna lie, I’m shy.
But you bring something out in me. I’ll admit I do stare, but who cares? I mean look at that thing 🥵️ I want to see it, take it out Let me touch it, with my mouth Stretch me out Ruin me for other dick I want it long, I want it thick. I can’t go back to average now I know Mr. Big would be proud I’m a size queen. Wow. 🙈 It’s a little bit scary I don’t know what you’re carrying It might not even fit! But I don’t care. I still want it. Let me hold it. Plop it on my face, I love the heft of it. I’ll do my best to get the rest of it. If you split me in half, what a way to go. I might hesitate but I won’t say no. If you make me cum first I bet you can fit it. I’m ready to get my back blown. If I can’t make it fit I’ll admit it Just bring me a big dick of my own. 🙏 Well taken care of6/16/2024 I have been getting princess and goddess treatment for weeks now. It's nice to finally be getting the treatment I deserve.
My main guy is meeting all my emotional needs. He sees me as his cute little princes, driving me around, paying for all my meals, taking me anywhere I want to go, planning big trips for us to take. He also sees me as a goddess. He worships my body. Not only that, he melts every time he sees me. He encourages my passions and supports all my endeavors. He sees the REAL me. The me that isn't putting on a facade or a character. Me without make up. In my pajamas. And he loves the real me. Which is all I could ever ask for really. Then there's my sweet pathetic little sub. He knows he's not man enough for me. But he delights in worshipping me. I have yet to put his mouth to use but I'm looking forward to using him in all the ways I couldn't use someone I have feelings for. He's a sweet one though. I like having him in my roster. Still training him though. The other day he drove out to my place from Atlanta to bring me groceries. When he arrived I thought about just making him leave them outside. But I invited him in for a moment. I told him to close his eyes, and I took my tits out. Then I said give me your hands. With his eyes closed he gave me his hands and I put them on my tits. He gasped and started to moan as he kneaded my tits in his hand like fluffy dough. I loved the way he reacted. That's how every man should react to the honor of touching my breasts. After a few moments I stopped and put them away. He opened his eyes and smiled and thanked me. I gave him a hug, turned him around and told him to get out. That was my first real task I've given him and he did very well. I was very pleased. The only thing i'm missing now is a big cock. I'm still on t he hunt for BWC. So if you know someone, let me know! Life update6/5/2024 If you've followed me for a while you'd know that in between my sexual posts there have been posts of me being so frustrated with men. All I ever wanted was to form some kind of emotional connection with a man. I was willing to give so much in order to get the little scraps I was getting. I gave my energy and sometimes my body to men who simply didn't deserve me at all. I'm not someone to take from when needed and give the bare minimum to. All you men saw me for was sexual. A piece of meat to get off to. Wasting my time thinking I had a shot at something real. I gave up. Just plum gave up. I stopped even talking to you people. I realized you weren't meant for anything real. Only to consume me as content. So from now on that's all I'll ever be to you is content.
That being said, once I cut the bullshit out of my life, someone special floated in. And in the last 2 weeks I have been on more dates with this man than I have been on with any man. We haven't even had sex yet. He doesn't ask me for pics. I haven't seen his dick. Holding hands was a big deal with us. All I ever wanted was to be courted. To be taken on dates. To be treated like a princess. To have someone want to know me, outside of sex. A man that makes time for me. Who shows me I'm a priority. This man has done all that and more. So far he's given me everything I've dreamed of. I've never been treated like this in my whole life! And as of this post he's officially my boyfriend. Which is, pretty exciting. The coolest most awesomest thing is...he doesn't want me to change myself in any way. He likes me exactly the way I am. We started things of will blunt honesty. I figured let me not paint this fantasy of myself, i'm gonna be real and if he's scared off so be in. But he never got scared. I told him I want to stay independent. I don't ever want to feel trapped. I want to be able to hook up with other ppl if the opportunity presents itself. He was fine with it. He knows I'm a free spirit and he loves that about me. He wants me to live my life, he just wants to be part of it. How amazing is that??? Plus we have so much in common and his energy matches mine. We're always coming up with fun things to do together. It's incredible. So as he and I explore sexually I'm sure i'll be posting about that. And worry not my dears. I will still be sharing my sexual encounters outside of me and him. In fact I've found myself a submissive cuck boy toy who's going to let me use him however I want. He's got a little dick so he won't be fucking me. I'll be using him as an object and really letting the sadistic side of myself out on him. I can't wait to make him suck a big cock too. Maybe Mr. Big will come play with us. My man knows about my cuck, or my munch as I like to call him. And he's ok with it. It feels good to be open and honest with all parties. My new man is a dom. He gives me all the daddy I want and he lets me be his cute little baby princess. I get to be as cute and little as I want and he loves it. But he also calls me a goddess and wants to worship me. I think he's a pleasure dom. So really, best of both worlds. He hasn't really explored kink before but he wants to with me. Which is exciting. The only other thing I could possibly wants is a hard body gym bro with a huge dick. That's one itch I really have yet to scratch. But I won't find him on reddit. I'll have to look elsewhere for that. But I'm not in a rush for that. Right now my emotional needs are being met and thats the biggest thing for me. I'm very satisfied at the moment. Tonight was HER night5/24/2024 Tonight i got high on some mushroom chocolates and I’ll tell you, my inner goddess came out. BIG time. I could have just devoured some hot young thing. Or 2, at once. Oh yes. I danced around my place as sexy as I could possibly be. I went through many stages.
First it was “bring me a pretty dumb peasant to devour. I will consume him and spit out his carcass like a chicken bone on a pile.” Then it was dancing in the mirror, slowly peeling off clothes. Then that turned into me feeling like I was in a sweaty gay club dancing with and kissing queer men and women listening to Chappell Roan. Then I was full on, lights off using my phone as a glow stick in a rave of one. Truly a most magical night. All the while feeling like an absolute goddess. Like, truly. I was dancing around in my underwear, wetting my hair, fan on, just falling in love with every fucking curve on my body. Jesus Christ they were right….i am smoking hot. I’ve never been more in love with myself than I was tonight. I saw it. HER. Wow. She is a goddess. The kind of woman to bring men to their knees. After dancing all night I ran my finger along the crease of my thigh and my panties. The most exquisite musk and I finally get the appeal. All those guys who said they wanted me after a workout. I get it now. I’m so obsessed with being clean and smelling good but really….this is what I was missing? It’s intoxicating. Salty, savory pussy. Sweet milky titties. I really have a full meal and dessert. Lady MWhat happens when you marry the 2nd guy you ever slept with and spend 20yrs thinking you just don't like sex? You get a divorce and realize just how sexual you actually are. Archives
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